07/06/2025, Saturday morning.

Woke up early today feeling inspired. I enjoyed a yummy raspberry yogurt by the way, my current hyperfixation lately is Swisse crêpes, Greek yogurt, and apricot jam (or honestly, any kind of jam). It’s honestly so yum, I love it!

I got inspired by a quote I read from The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros, and I was like, I need to write something about this in my ebook. So I started writing, and I’m actually surprised because from just one idea, I ended up having so many other new ideas.

For those who asked me on Instagram how I find inspiration honestly, I’m inspired by everything: people-watching, YouTube videos, vlogs from cool girlies I adore, movies (I really think my personality is the result of watching so many romcoms haha )and I love romanticizing the little things. I also get inspired by Substack, books, house tours…

The thing is, you have to notice you have to learn how to see the little things in life. The beautiful places in your city, for example. Maybe I should make a post about that, since a lot of people asked.

This afternoon: I had a bit of a headache, so I gave myself permission to slow down and escape into a French film. There’s something uniquely magical about them so effortlessly inspiring in countless ways. The aesthetics, the effortlessly chic hair, the dreamy corners of France, the cinematography… it all just captivates me every time. Later, I plan write few essays for my ebook, and dive into a few Substack pieces while eating a coconut homemade loaf .

I love making wishlists like seriously, it’s honestly one of my favorite hobbies. Every time I make one, I get so excited just thinking about buying those specific items. But I wasn’t always like this. I remember back then, every time I made a wishlist, I would completely forget about it and end up buying random stuff I didn’t even need.

Then I started creating proper wishlists because everyone on TikTok was saying it’s the best way to shop smarter and avoid impulse buying and honestly? It was life-changing.

On my Pinterest boards, I’ve got perfume wishlists, bag wishlists, dream curated wishlists (those are full of products or clothes that are way too expensive for me to afford right now, but I pin them anyway). And you might ask me: “Why would you pin something you know you can’t have?”

Well, I’m here to say that’s not true. Just because it feels impossible now doesn’t mean it always will be. I used to doubt that I’d ever have the things I really want… but honestly, everything I’ve ever written down in a wishlist whether in my Pinterest or my Notes app feels closer and more real now than ever before.

Dream big. Pin it anyway. Manifest it, and work toward it.

I remember one day I pinned something I wanted so badly, even though I knew I probably wouldn't get it. I stared at that board for weeks.
It stayed there for months. Like a quiet little altar of hope.

There it was:

• a polka dot sundress

• a home mist I dreamt of, scented like argan oil and roses

• a big box of Lindt chocolates

• a lip gloss

• and a MAC lipliner in the shade Whirl (yes, I was that specific )

I didn't think much of it after pinning. Life went on. But then… slowly, quietly, and kind of weirdly, the things I pinned began to find me. A family member came back from France guess what she brought? The exact polka dot dress I'd pinned. I didn’t even know she knew my size. She also brought bath and body products that matched what I had secretly saved the same ones, the same smell. Another relative, visiting briefly from the south of France, randomly offered me a big box of Lindt chocolates the exact one I had saved. I walked into a store one day, not even searching for it, and there it was: the same lip gloss. And the MAC lipliner I obsessed over On sale.

Can you imagine? Half the things I pinned I never bought them, I never asked for them… they just came to me. Gifted, offered, discovered. So now I have this strange belief that Pinterest is some kind of manifestation tool.

Now, every time I pin something, I smile not because I expect it immediately, but because I believe it’s coming. I just have to pin it.

I've realized lately that a well-curated wishlist is more than just a list.
It’s a mirror. A reflection of who we are, what we love, what catches our eye and whispers "this feels like you." Every time I see someone share a wishlist on social media i become sooo happy
Because that list? It’s them. It’s their little world.
You can tell what kind of person they are by what they long for.

Some people want cherry red ballet flats.
Some want a joan didion book to read in summer. Some want the eau duelle dyptique perfume , some want a cute set or a rhode pocket blush
Some just simple things , And I love that ( so dear reader please post more of your monthly wishlists i adore this content )

Last month, I watched a video essay that explained how just the act of desiring something of mentally trying it on, picturing ourselves with it triggers a small release of serotonin in the brain. Our brain rewards us not only for having something, but for imagining it.
Desire itself becomes its own kind of pleasure. So yes I’ll keep making wishlists. In my notes app. On Pinterest. In my head before bed.
Because sometimes just wanting is enough. And because the things we want say something tender and honest about who we are becoming. So go ahead: pin that linen dress, save that lamp….

The objects I desire aren’t just things- they are artefacts of selfhood which anchor me in a society that demands me to be fluid. To buy is to choose, and to choose is to assert control. The careful consideration of colour, the choice between different styles and the weighing of the price against the value- these are not mindless acts of consumption. They are deliberate acts of curation, manifestations of my inner self.

I've come to realize that a wishlist should never become a dumping ground for every impulse or aesthetic trend we come across. One important rule I’ve started following is to never pin more than a hundred products. It forces you to be selective, intentional, and realistic. When you save too many things, it becomes overwhelming and loses all sense of meaning. You have to ask yourself: if the future version of me already owned this, would I actually use it? Would it still feel special? I’ve started being more minimalist with what I want to own, especially when it comes to makeup, skincare, and perfumes.

There’s something incredibly beautiful about seeing someone with a small, curated collection just the essentials, but chosen so well. That made me want to do the same. It’s not always easy to find the perfect signature scent, the one lipstick that works with everything, or the right moisturizer that actually suits your skin, but the process of refining is part of the joy. Before buying anything now, I always check reviews, think about my lifestyle, and ask myself whether I’m drawn to the product itself or just the way it was presented in a video. Desire can be powerful, but it should be conscious. A wishlist, after all, isn’t just about what you want — it’s about what deserves space in your life.

PS : I’ve finally made the decision to create my very own eBook packed with long essays, honest reflections, real diary entries straight from my journal, lists of things I’m obsessed with, and so much more. Think of it as Substack-style writing, but transformed into a full ebook . Plus, I’ll be sharing tips on navigating your twenties and everything I’ve learned along the way.

Since so many of you adore my personal essays , diary entries and my lists this felt right. It’s something I’ve always wanted to do and I’m finally doing it. The release will be either early September or sometime this fall (or maybe even sooner if everything aligns perfectly).

Everyone who registers before the official release of the eBook will get something special 💌

Register here Pre-Launch announcement / Pre-Order

I just wanted to take a moment to say a huge thank you to everyone who registered early and filled out the form. I honestly wasn’t expecting so many of you to sign up, let alone be curious about my writing, my thoughts, and the things I love. It truly means a lot.

Your responses were so helpful. I loved seeing what you’re most excited to read: essays, diary entries (long and short), everyday thoughts , I’ll definitely keep that in mind as I shape what’s coming next. Since most of you voted to receive updates via Substack, I’ll continue posting here

Speaking of which: I wrote an essay this morning and I’m planning to write another one tonight. I’ve been feeling deeply inspired lately, and honestly, writing like this — consistently, softly, in rhythm with my thoughts has been healing and energizing. I also have a few articles already drafted, ready to go.

For those who registered early, a little surprise or gift will be sent your way once the ebook is officially released .

And in case you didn’t know: Mimy’s Journal is still free to read. That decision was made months ago and I’ve kept it open because I want these thoughts, reflections, and little stories to feel accessible. There are over 80 posts available, written since 2023 feel free to explore.

I might also share a “day in my life” post soon something casual and cozy, a little peek into what a writing day looks like for me. If that sounds like something you’d enjoy, make sure to answer the next poll. It really helps me know what to create next for you.

Thank you again, truly. I’m so excited for what’s coming.

With love,
Mimi

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